舒淇上周与传绯闻多年的冯德伦闪电结婚，两人之前打死都不承认交往，因此这条消息劲爆华人地区的互联网。多年感情无处依靠的女神终于找到归宿，大家由衷地为她高兴。不过翻看她过往的语录，看到自称不婚主义者的女神也有言不对心的时候。
我要做花瓶。很多人认为女演员就是花瓶，有漂亮脸蛋和长长秀发就可以了。其实当个好花瓶不是容易的事，要真的有料才行。牡丹是里外都绽放的，我很欣赏巩俐，希望可以像她一样做个有内涵的花瓶。I want to be a "hua ping" (Chinese for vase, also a derogatory term for beautiful women with no substance). A lot of people think that actresses are like vases, they just need to look beautiful and have long billowy hair. But I don't think it is easy to be a "hua ping", you have to have substance to be one, like a peony that blossoms both from the inside and out. I really look up to Gong Li. I hope I can be a "hua ping" of immense substance like her.
你可以做错事，但是不要让自己的生活有遗憾。也许你跟那个你爱的人真的在一起时不过两三个月就分手了，但你一定要去尝试，要去追求过。You can make mistakes, but you can't have regrets in life. Maybe the person you love can't last more than two or three months in a relationship with you, but you have got to at least give it a shot, to go for it.
我知道有好多人一定会娶我，只是不知是否我爱的人而已。
I know a lot of guys will marry me, but I just don't know if they were men that I truly love.
如果我50岁的时候，还有人发自内心称赞我性感，我会很开心。
I will be ecstatic if someone truly, and from the bottom of their hearts, think that I am still sexy when I am 50.
现在的爱情很多都是速食的。以前可能只是两个人坐在一起，你看看我，我看看你，他每天在你家楼下，接你上学，过很久才敢轻轻拖拖你的小手。Love nowadays is like instant food, whereas in the past, two people may sit down together and slowly check each other out, he would wait downstairs and walk you to school, only daring to hold your hands after a long time. They took things slow in the past.
用了十年的时间，把曾经脱掉的衣服又一件一件穿上。
I have spent a decade putting back on the clothes I have disrobed.
我不相信婚姻，从小到大就是不婚主义者，我觉得失恋还蛮凄美的，失婚就太难听了，而且办离婚手续又那么复杂。
I don't believe in marriage, I haven't since I was a child. I think there is a beauty in the sadness of falling out of love, but not when it comes to divorce. I just find the procedure of getting divorce too tedious.
